I realized that perhaps i have grown complacent: in my family life, in my career, in my friendships and in my relationship. While i am never one to believe in staying stagnant in one single place for long, and knows fully the furtility of wanting things to stay the way they are, i am nonetheless overwhelmed by changes at different points in my life. I realized the need for change but some changes are beyond my comprehension. What is worse, is that i have failed to recognized the signs of changes. I am complacent, hence i am unprepared. Its my fault for not dealing better when changes happened. To let myself be swept by the waves into the sea. When you go sailing, the onus is on you to bring the life jacket, be watchful for the weather, the currents, the sea. If being complacent, you have neglected to do all that, do not blame the sea for being rough and capsizing your boat, leaving you to drown. The sea has never promised to be gentle with anyone.